Well, I don t like to interfeer, neither put my nose where I'm not supposed to, but as a host, you should always stay until the very end, until we/you got a "winner" team. Some people might play for experience (the garena experience), so basically, when you do this, you just decide not to give xp, or less, way less, to the 9 other players. Gany was pretty nice with you actually, especially as the host. You were the host, means you invited 9 people to join "you" (nothing related to porn), you don t throw people out of your home right before the party is over right? Maybe I'm emphasizing the situation a bit, but that's the idea.
I really don t see any hate in this, but then again, I wasn't in the game... but still, I hope I managed to explain my point of view.
Good luck with your unban request.